What are human relationships and their purpose?

May 27, 2022 | Awareness, Relationships | 2 comments

 

Human relationships are the product of people meeting and forming a close connection. Such bonds often hold thoughts of care, trust, and love. When these traits arise within you, they bring a sense of joy, safety, and security. You move toward such states as they help make connections to assure your health and survival. Here, you realise relationships serve the purpose of improving your life and mind.

 

Relationships serve the purpose of improving your life and mind.

A relationship serves the purpose of improving your life and mind.

 

Do you need a relationship to live a balanced, happy life?

 

You don’t need a relationship to live a happy, aligned life. In short, you can enjoy health and inner peace, no matter what the circumstances. Once you’re aware of what relationships offer, it’s easier to know if one suits you. This insight allows you to make wise choices about yourself and others. It’s then possible to live a joyous, balanced life.

The right relationship helps you grow into a better person. Here, you improve and support each other’s lives while sharing the same space. In most cases, these merits build through acts of love, kindness, physical attraction, and intimacy. It’s also vital to co-exist without excess problems or conflict. Altogether, these factors work to create the right relationship. To what extent do these traits exist in you? Are you healthy, stable, and at ease with yourself? Once the mind and body are in sync, you realise inner peace doesn’t depend on a relationship. In such a state, you attract people and events that support your growth as a person.

Realise that the most balanced relationship cannot fix the mind’s fears, problems or sense of lack. It’s essential to know this, so you’re clear on the reasons you wish to gain a partner. Ask yourself, why do I want a relationship? Is one crucial to make me happy? Am I looking for a partner to avoid facing my mind? These questions bring clarity to your motives. By bringing attention to your thoughts this way, it’s possible to make clearer choices. Here, you can choose to attract a suitable partner or enjoy the experience of being single. Either way, you stay peaceful and free from the mind’s fears.

Given these points, view relationships as a choice to enhance your life. In doing so, you accept your own path toward joy and balance.

 

View relationships as a choice to enhance your life.

View relationships as a choice to enhance your life.

 

What does a healthy relationship involve?

 

A healthy relationship involves honesty, respect, open communication, and trust. In such a union, you will find an equal balance of power. Here, both parties spend time together, share decisions and value each other’s space. They are also free to make their own choices without fear. This aligned way of living allows for mutual growth and support. Once you learn this, it’s possible to build and support a healthy relationship.

In a relationship, it’s vital to accept your partner as they are – without forcing them to change. To gain this mindset, put aside any fanciful beliefs about life. Such images often come from the brain’s past programming that shapes your mind’s views. What picture do the media and your mind paint of the ideal relationship? If reality doesn’t match these images, you have a huge letdown to deal with. To solve this problem, release your expectations by seeing life and relationships as they are. In doing so, you no longer wish to impose your will to ‘save’ someone or force them to change. In such a relationship, the following points apply:

A partner can work with you to meet your needs – but cannot fulfil each one.

Your wants, needs, and expectations in a relationship are unique. You can work with your partner to meet these, but they cannot fulfil each one. Times will come when you cannot relate to each other’s thoughts or choices. These periods of discord can flow into other areas, such as intimacy. Here, it’s vital to accept that your partner has their own desires and interests. Can you allow them to speak while listening and stating your points when required? Are you able to come to a shared agreement? If not, can you respect their views and let them be? By doing this, it’s possible to enjoy mutual wants and needs in each area of the relationship.

You have to accept each other’s flaws. 

In reality, no human being is perfect. This truth means that each person has shortcomings in some areas. In the early stages of a relationship, your body and brain are in a high, euphoric state. Here, it’s easy for the emotion of love to blind you to your partner’s faults. Beware of these feelings, as they can lead you into unwise decisions. As you spend more time together, your partner’s flaws, habits, and issues come to the surface. Are you able to tolerate these? By accepting your partner’s shortcomings, you learn to accept yourself. This peace allows for a harmonious reality.

Both your lives will change.

Change is part of life’s nature and happens in both of your lives. These shifts create opportunities to grow and mature as human beings. Such wisdom soon shows in your thoughts, actions, priorities, and interests. Are you willing to accept this growth? As the mind moves toward balance, it attains a pure, loving state. Here, you learn to allow others and yourself to be – without force or resistance. A time may arise when you or your partner move out of the relationship to pursue new directions. Perhaps you stay and grow together. In either case, changes will happen. The success of a relationship rests on how open you are to such shifts.

The word relationship refers to the means to listen, tolerate, understand, learn from, and relate to each other. These traits apply to managing general areas of life, such as finances, careers, family, and health. As these factors shift, it’s vital to accept and adjust to them. To explain this, note how you and your partner’s outer beauty fades with age. Given this point, can you build a relationship on looks alone? Are you both able to take pride in yourselves while moving through change? By looking beyond the physical, you see a person’s inner, lasting grace. You then connect, relate, change and learn from them at a deeper level.

In healthy relationships, you will find an equal balance of power.

In a healthy relationship, you will find an equal balance of power.

 

Does marriage still hold a valid place in society?

 

Marriage holds a valid place in society for those who view it as their aligned, ideal path. For such people, making this formal commitment is a conscious choice. In contrast, realise that marriage isn’t right for everyone. No matter what you choose to do, balance your mind first. Life then arranges and takes care of the reality that’s best for you. By noting this, you respect others’ decisions – while choosing your most suitable life route.

In each marriage, both parties soon realise how much their thoughts and life paths vary. It then becomes clear that many of their views and goals don’t match. In your life, this period can bring conflict, as you both engage and speak less. Here, the level of connection and intimacy fades. This sense of lack often leads to acts such as affairs, using spiritual aids, excess work, food and alcohol. Despite the highs they bring, these props hide the basic problem and block solutions. Instead of pushing your partner toward the mind’s ideals, understand and note their thoughts. This openness allows you both to find mutual paths and solutions.

Relationships give you a chance to see thoughts and emotions with clarity. This vision helps you move toward allowing the mind’s excess momentum to fade. When problems arise, view them as a mirror of your inner state. In a marriage, these issues occur to help unearth troubling layers of emotion. By moving through problems together, you meet your true selves – beneath the mind’s noise. From here, the relationship either grows stronger or ends with respect. In either case, you both move forth with wisdom and clarity.

Given these points, realise that you can find peace and balance in a relationship, marriage, or as a single person. In short, all life routes hold valid places in society.

 

Marriage holds a valid place in society for those who view it as their aligned, ideal path. Relationship

Marriage holds a valid place in society for those who view it as their aligned, ideal path.

 

How do you deal with breakups or divorce?

 

You deal with breakups or divorce by accepting such events as part of life. No matter how stable a situation appears, in time, it falls apart. Such dissolutions seem tragic, as the mind attaches itself to people and places. In reality, life opens, sustains, and closes chapters in your space. These events allow for new insights, lessons and fresh experiences. By seeing life this way, you accept breakups and change as part of life.

As you spend time in a relationship, memories of your partner gather in your body’s space. These create strong thoughts and emotions. The brain then binds this content to your partner’s presence. For this reason, separation hurts because the links fuelling such emotions aren’t present. In effect, the mind and body revolt. This period of grief can drive you into imbalanced acts. These include seeking your ex-partner or rushing into another relationship. Such actions are your mind trying to fill the space left behind. Instead of acting this way, allow yourself to grieve the loss. By sensing this space, you open a gateway to healing and peace.

Each person is on their own path of learning and growth in a relationship. On account of this, either or both of you may choose to part. This event can happen because of various reasons. These include.

  • Communication problems.
  • Misconduct from one of both parties.
  • Lack of intimacy.
  • Not agreeing on mutual decisions.
  • Affairs and unfaithful actions.
  • Money problems.
  • Mutual parting.

If a breakup happens, realise that it’s normal to feel painful emotions. If you fight such feelings, you use up the body’s healing energy. On that note, stop trying to solve or distract yourself from them. By facing emotions, they fade and solutions come without effort. As a result, you accept change as part of life.

 

If a breakup happens, in your relationship, realise that it's normal to feel painful emotions.

If a breakup happens, realise that it’s normal to feel painful emotions.

 

Does the course of a relationship mirror your mind’s path to balance?

 

The course of a relationship mirrors your mind’s path to balance. Both routes are methods life uses to express and learn about itself. These motives set the purpose for each action that takes place. By learning this, you see relationships as a vehicle to understand your mind and improve yourself. In doing so, you fulfil life’s purpose to gain further knowledge and balance.

Relationships and the mind align in similar ways. In both cases, they move through the following steps.

The drive to connect

Relationships form because of life’s drive to survive and connect. This motive applies to each being, atom, person, and object. In each case, links take shape to create a structure or network that improves a life-forms chance of survival. In the same fashion, your emotions aim to stay alive by forming ties to thoughts and people matching their energy. Here, you learn to be more aware of your thoughts and feelings. This phase often marks the start of a growth in knowledge and consciousness. Human relationships come from this drive to connect.

The brief sensation of wholeness.

In a relationship, once two people connect, they feel whole and fulfilled. This result also happens in the mind when it finds security in a belief or idea. Despite such bliss, the sense of wholeness and safety only lasts for a brief period. The reason is that these states rest on an item, thought, event, or person. When such factors change, you sense unrest and despair. This turmoil often takes place in a relationship when the other party can no longer fuel their partner’s thoughts.

The phase of unearthing and release.

The challenges that come up in a relationship often unearth troubling thoughts within each partner. These imbalances arise from both your minds and pass – once you let them be. In the relationship, you can then work together and support each others growth. This purging happens in your mind when something triggers a deep layer of emotion. View such a situation as a call to look inward. Here, you can allow and resolve the conflict that’s present in your space. This view applies to both troubles in the mind and within relationships.

The return to balance. 

By allowing and moving through trouble in a relationship, both parties soon find solutions. This course moves in line with the mind’s return to balance and peace. To reach this point, grow wise to your thoughts, then relax all efforts to be aware or force a solution. Here, you allow the mind and your partner full freedom to think – without pressure. This release allows pain to ease and settle. It also creates access to inspiration and wisdom. In effect, troubles and low states in your mind or relationship lose their pull. When this phase completes, your actions move from insight and wisdom. This motion balances your mind and relationships.

 

 

 

 

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2 Comments

  1. John Shearer

    Another meaningful blog Subraj! Mindful Love & Light Always! 🙏

    Reply
    • subraj

      Thankyou John! I’m really glad you like this one.

      Reply

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